There are 4 paths you can choose to divorce. You can do it yourself, you can work with a divorce mediator, or you can use a lawyer-led amicable or litigated divorce process. Which path you choose will determine how much you will spend, how long it will take, how stressful it will be, what kind of impact your divorce will have on your children and whether you will have a healthy divorce. Watch this video before you file for divorce. It is invaluable to help you choose the best path for you and for your family.